Table of Contents

Foreword 4
01 - Developing Relationships God's Way 17
  First Experiences 18
  The Childhood Years 19
  Adolescence 22
  Finding A Standard 23
  Finding Your Other Half 25
  The Desire To Be Normal 27
02 - When To Start Looking 33
  Where To Start 34
  The Old Way 36
  Start With Acquaintance 37
  Looking For A Sign 39
  The Wrong Image 41
  Simple Agreement 42
  Flirt A Little 43
  The Friendship Stage 44
  Finding The Similarities 45
  You Need To Be Different 46
  Relationship Not Romance 49
03 - Building A Romance 55
  Falling In Love 56
  Love Is A Choice 58
  Not Based Primarily On Feelings 59
  Finding A Match 61
  Only For Believers 62
  The Importance of Communication 64
  Physical Love 65
  Start With The Spirit 66
  Physical Love Comes Next 67
  The Act Of Marriage 68
04 - How to Prepare for Marriage 75
  Why Are You Still Single? 75
  Like A Job Interview 76
  Discover, Develop and Present Your Talents 78
  Prepare Yourself First 80
  The Three D’s 82
05 - Discovering Your gifts. 85
  Consider Your Body 86
  Be Aware Of Bad Qualities 90
  Look At Your Soul 92
  Know your temperament 92
  Know Your Spiritual Gifts 94
  What Do You Have That Is Unique? 96
  Your First Project 97
06 - How To Develop Your Gifts 101
  Enhance The Good Body Parts 102
  Changing Your Hair 104
  Body Shape 105
  Wear The Right Clothes 106
  Hide And Show 108
  Beauty Treatments 111
  The Right Colors 113
  Clothing Styles 116
  Health and Hygiene 119
07 - Developing Soul Qualities 125
  Be Friendly 125
  Bring Change Within 129
  Demonstrate Your Gifts 130
  Discover Your Gifts 136
08 - The Laws of Attraction 139
  The Science of Magnetism 141
  The Natural Attraction of Male and Female 144
  Balancing Masculinity and Femininity 148
  Opposites Attract 149
  Laws of Attraction Like Gravity 152
09 - Not A Temperament Thing 157
  Qualities of Masculinity 159
  Qualities Of Femininity 163
10 - The Problem With Gender Imbalance 175
  The Attractive Man 177
  The Attractive Woman 179
  How Your Image Is Developed 180
  The Picture of Maturity 181
  Other-Orientation 183
  Meet The Needs of Others 185
  Being Positive 185
  Being Generous 186
  Where Do These Qualities Come From? 187
  Get the Fruit of the Spirit. 188
  Work On Yourself Not Your Partner 190
11 - Finding a Ministry Match 195
  Ministry Can Be Like Career 195
  Ministry Versus Marriage 197
  The Role of Eve With Adam 199
  Not The Assistant Minister 200
12 - Three Scenarios 205
  1. Husband Has Prime Call 205
  2. Wife Has The Prime Call 210
  3. Husband And Wife Share The Call 215
13 - Only One Leader At A Time 221
  Two Kinds of Ministry Marriage Prospects 222
  A Conflict In Calling 223
  Be Careful Before Falling in Love 225
  Let God Make The Choice 226
  Make Your Intentions Clear 227
14 - Marrying For The Wrong Reasons 233
  The Right Reason For Marriage 234
  Be A Lover Not A Minister 236
  Fitting Ministry Into Marriage 237
  Confusing The Lord With Your Ministry 238
  Make Your Choice Early 240
15 - Making the Marriage Decision 247
  Deciding The Lord’s Way 247
  The Lord Gives The Best 248
  God Creates The Marriage Bond 250
  What You Must Give Up 251
  The Marriage Roles 253
16 - Two Become One 259
  A Partnership of Three 260
  Who Proposes? 261
  Begin By Seeking His Will 263
17 - The Wedding Ceremony 269
  Who Came Up With The Pattern? 269
  Based On Blood Covenant 271
  Blood Covenant Ritual 272
  The Wedding Ceremony Like Blood Covenant 275
  Must Involve Spirit, Soul and Body 276
18 - Covenant Requirements 281
  The Spiritual Seal Vital 282
  The Ring A Sign of The Covenant 283
  Divorce And Previous Marriage Bonds 284
  The Covenant Meal 285
  The Celebration 286
  The Wedding Night 288
  Make Love In The Anointing 288
A Word from Les D. Crause 291